Manifesting – What You Should Really Be Focusing On


Manifesting: What you really should be focusing on

If after reading this title you’re thinking WTF?, I totally get you.

When I started learning about the Law of Attraction, like most people, I thought you had to focus on what you want.

And if someone had told me this was wrong, I would have said, “Are you crazy?! That’s what the Law of Attraction is all about! You focus on what you want (constantly and hard enough) and then it has to manifest! Right?!”

Well…no. That’s not how it works.

It’s something completely different.

But don’t despair, stick with me here because as you might guess, I’m going to share my secret to successful manifesting. And it’s all about focusing on the right things.

Don’t worry… it’ll all start to make sense in a moment.

I don’t know about you but I personally hate it when things are made more complicated than they really are. So let’s keep it simple.


Everything you want has two sides to it

That goes for every single desire that you have. Big or small.

Side 1 = what you want and how it feels when you have it.
This is where you feel great. You’re happy because you have what you want. You enjoy it deeply. This is your vibration or frequency.

Side 2 = the absence of what you want and how that feels.
Here’s where you’re not so happy, because what you desire is still not there. You want it. Maybe you need it urgently and it’s just not coming. You’re feeling frustrated. (Those of you who have experienced needing money urgently, know exactly what I’m talking about…)


Focusing on what you want makes you realize it’s not there

When you focus on what you want (Side 2) and on trying to manifest what you want, you’re basically saying, “It’s not here. I don’t have it. That’s why I want it. I need it right now!”

Does that sound like the voice in your head?

What’s happening here is that you keep yourself on one side of this desire. The side of the absence of what you want…

This is one of the reasons I do not have a vision board but I’ll say more about that in another post.


How universe responds to your focus

Universe is governed by a certain number of universal laws. Unchangeable, always at work. And I mean always. No exception to the rule.

The one we’re concentrating on here is the Law of Attraction which states that “Like attracts Like” which is a very strong generalization of what it really does.
A generalization which leads to the mistaken belief that we get the thing that we focus on.

What we really should be saying is, “Like vibration attracts like vibration”.

Universe responds to vibration (or if you prefer energy or frequency).
It puts together what has the same vibration. That’s it.

Every time you feel the absence of something that you want or you are unconsciously saying, “I want it because I don’t have it”, you are in the vibration of lack. Unfulfillment.
Universe, with the law of attraction, now matches your vibration…
And without realizing it, you’re pushing away the exact thing you’re trying to manifest!

So what can you do?


Focus on vibration instead

“If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.” – Nikola Tesla

Here’s an example.

Let’s say you want a certain amount of money because you want a better lifestyle for you and your family.

Instead of focusing on that money, ask yourself this question, “How does it feel to have this money?”

Really get into this as deeply as you can. You can say it out loud or write it down. What matters here is that you feel the vibration of having this money.

Think about how happy you’ll be. Feel the ease that comes with living in abundance…

Words really don’t mean that much to universe. Because you can say one thing and vibrate something totally different.

[Tweet “The key to manifesting is to match the VIBRATION of what you want.”]

Learn to feel as if you already have all you want.

Feel happy NOW.

This will keep you in a vibration of abundance.
And universe won’t have any other choice than to deliver what you want… 


As always I send you all my love!



P.S. There will be more on this topic very soon and my subscribers will be the first to know. So subscribe!

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